It is hard to make Steve see things in his head. He is one of those people that has to have it all drawn out for him. He is really not a creative person at all. There is nothing wrong with that. I am in the design business and I see people like that all of the time. That is why there are creative people, such as myself, there to make changes. We have visions that lay it all out for us to see before it is all executed. We have changed our original wedding plans from a formal church wedding to a wedding on our new farm. We are both excited. The problem was I had ordered everything formal. I did not want or need to have two sets of wedding decorations. I solved this problem by selling our formal decorations to one of my friends. She is getting married next year and had helped me pick out many of the formal decorations because she loved them too. She was thrilled to buy them from me. That opened us up to planning a wedding that was all about the farm. We would have BBQ for our reception with all of the trimmings. We would be dressed in casual dress for the reception and my wedding gown would not be floor length. I can not wait to get every thing we need for this wedding. It is going to be quaint and cute. The best part is it will be filled with love and laughter which is what I wanted most of all. It will be held on our farm where we will be spending the rest of our lives together. There is nothing better than that.